4 Tips Avoid Fighting Money Due
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Money is a sensitive issue in a marriage, not only in almost all developing countries but also in developed countries. No wonder that the current crisis could lead to a number of couples desperate households in managing money and ended on stress.As quoted from VIVAnews Shine, August 1, 2009, approximately 30 percent of Americans say the recession has added to their stress levels that are directly or indirectly affects the marriage life. Largest percentage followed by France at 24 percent, Canada about 23 percent, and Germany by 12 percent.
Rather than further dissect why more Americans 'suffering' than any other country, we better listen to some tips so you can avoid domestic problems caused by money. Here are four tips to keep telling a good relationship marriage and relationship with the couple at a time of crisis:
Communication and honesty
In the midst of crisis, it would be important if you are more likely to communicate with your partner, not just talk about the relationship itself, but also the financial problem. This is where the proper time for each of more open and honest. This is necessary to facilitate your spouse both easier to deal with financial problems later.
Working together as a team
When under stress, you will be easy to blame and attack your partner, even more so when you're 'broke'. The best way is to make sure you are both on the same mindset, not separate, and work together to solve all your problems.
Do not be too often fantasize
Dream or imagine things that do not please you can do or get it will increase the level of stress and depression you. Do not be seduced by what you do not have, but focus on what you can do and what you want for the future. This is more realistic.
Keep the spirit and joy
Remember the moments you've ever spent with the couple when they first met and fell in love first? Try to bring back pleasures that once shared to the current crisis. Although right now, you have not used in spending as freely as money, show me the 'magic' you to couples who fascinated him, a week or once a month. If the 'magic' that is bringing back the atmosphere of the first intimate relationship with your partner, it's up to you. Perhaps it is not the best, but at least from where you can get new ideas.